R.E.M. Dreams vs. Sleep Thinking

A dreamer writes: last night i had a dream which i only remember a tiny bit of that my boyfriend was stressed and throwing up and he was pretty much all over the place in terms of stress and in the dream i just kept comforting him telling him everything is going to be okay. the [...]

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Dream: ‘The Contract’

A dreamer writes: If my dream were a movie, I would call it ‘The Contract’.  In my dream, we had to kill to not be killed, people we didn't know would come, trained people, and slowly they would kill us. I refused staying anymore in that world and left, waking up in my dream world, in [...]

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Same Gender Sex Dream

A female dreamer writes: "I had an intimate dream about a woman I used to work with.  I'm not happy with my sex life with my husband, does this mean I'm gay?" Answer: No it does not mean that you are gay. If you have been questioning your sexual orientation since before the dream, and you feel strongly [...]

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Unprepared for the Adventure Dream

Here is another entry from my website via "Ask The Dream Detective": If your dream were a movie, what would you title it?: The Disorganized Hiker General feeling of this dream: Rushed/Anxious Tell me your dream here: "I have had three dreams recently, two that I can really remember where I'm trying to leave for a hiking trip/adventure in [...]

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Home Invasion Dreams

Have you ever dreamed that someone was breaking into your house? This is quite a common dream theme and can be very scary since most people fear that their dreams are literal. The good news is that usually they not literal, but symbolic. That said, even though the dream might not mean an imminent home [...]

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Dreams of Sex with Someone You’re Not Attracted to

Above is an episode of The Dream Detective podcast that will answer a lot of your questions about love, sex, and relationship dreams. Below is a quick FAQ about romantic dreams of someone you're not attracted to. You can subscribe to The Dream Detective podcast in your favorite podcast platform. A listener asks: "I dreamed I had [...]

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Dreams of Your Partner Cheating

"What does it mean if I dreamed my partner cheated on me?" The first reaction is usually to be mad or suspicious of your partner. But hold on! While again anything is possible - do your fact checking if you think they are literally having an affair - HOWEVER...This dream usually indicates that you are feeling [...]

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What does it mean when you dream of your Ex?

One of the most common questions I hear goes something like this:  "I dreamed of my ex, does it mean I should get back together with them?"  Or, "Does it mean that they are thinking of me too?" While I never rule out the mysterious and mystical ways of the dream world, and I do believe [...]

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